I love my husband. I truly do. But there are some days..well some days I just don’t know. Today is one of those days. He is crabby, and I don’t know why. He is not happy with me..for some reason…I don’t know why. I hear him laughing with the guys in the shop…but he isn’t laughing with me…I don’t know why. He started snappin at me the minute I walked in the door of the business this morning…and now…at 3PM i still don’t know why.
Why is it that men can treat “us” so negatively but turn around and be so jovial with people they just “work” with? Aren’t we supposed to be the ones they love and respect? Yet we get the “dark” side. And half the time, at least in my case I DON’T KNOW WHY!!!!!! Am I alone here? Am I crazy? Just a thanks once in a while, a great job, an atta boy like he gives the other guys would be welcomed.
I am, by nature a sap. I love mushy cards and letters and little love tokens. I tend to give them a lot. Maybe I give them too often. But that’s how I am. But for me, personally, I wouldn’t treat the guys I work with, or my customers for that matter, better then my spouse. I would chalk it up to “just a bad day for hubby” but I have had so many conversations with so many other women who go through the same stuff. So, why are men and women so different that way? God really should have made us with thicker skins or something if He was going to make us have to be the ones to deal with our husbands moods.
So, today is a bad day. Maybe tomorrow will be better. Hopefully tonight will be well..it just better be!
I love my husband, I really do…but some times…MEN!